The Image or The Attitude

The Image or The Attitude

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I was listening to some people today talking about how growing an online presence is difficult and that it was disheartening to see that a person who was willing to exploit sex as a way to get ahead get so much more progress. As a result, there was a debate about morality and how they were going to do it the right way. It resulted in some people saying you gotta do what you gotta do in the beginning to stand out. As you would imagine this debate got a little hairy.

This almost reminds me of debates such as saying nice guys finish last and therefore if you want to get ahead you have to be crude and be willing to step over everyone. It made me think too how a lot of this can simply come down to how people portray themselves differently in terms of say confidence. For example, you can argue that the people using the sex appeal know that it works in terms of getting attention and therefore they are more confident that they can get what they are after.

In many ways, it’s similar to people debating about relationships and how some people seem to be able to get all the attention despite having certain qualities that some wouldn’t deem as say desirable. So much psychology factors you have to think of when it comes to stuff like this though huh? I guess the bottom lime is you just have to put yourself in a position where you have the mentality and confidence that what you are doing is the right thing. And by that I don’t mean doing one thing and saying things would be so much easier if you did XYZ.

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