{"id":333,"date":"2007-06-09T20:43:01","date_gmt":"2007-06-10T03:43:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al6400.com\/blog\/2007\/06\/09\/your-definition-of-suffering-financially\/"},"modified":"2007-06-09T20:43:01","modified_gmt":"2007-06-10T03:43:01","slug":"your-definition-of-suffering-financially","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.al6400.com\/blog\/your-definition-of-suffering-financially\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Definition of Suffering Financially"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems that recently almost everyday I am hearing something on the news about that Paris Hilton ordeal where she has to go to jail over a traffic violation.  It is kind of amazing to see how so many people are emotionally attached to this event as if she did something to them personally.<\/p>\n<p>I guess she has developed a reputation to most as being &#8220;rich and spoiled&#8221; and as a result a lot of the reports I saw showed clips from her TV show which demonstrates how she has such a hard time doing regular things as she is used to always having the best, so to speak.  This kind of reminds of certain people that I have talked to who mention how they are suffering so much financially in their lives.  They then tell me examples such as how they have to drive a &#8220;regular&#8221; car or that they can&#8217;t afford to dine out at restaurants.  I personally can&#8217;t see that as suffering financially as your basic necessities are still being met in a non volatile way.<\/p>\n<p>One point that was told to me before was how if you are used to living a lifestyle where you are constantly given the best, then having to downgrade your lifestyle can be suffering as you are not familiar with that lifestyle.  Even with that I can&#8217;t say that is truly suffering financially as it is not like it is an unmanageable situation or that something that you need to survive is completely out of your control.  <\/p>\n<p>My main point is that if you come to a point in your life where you need to live with a specific budget in order to help cover the cost for other aspects in your life, you shouldn&#8217;t perceive wants as needs while over dramatizing your situation to make it look so bad instead of trying to adapt to it with a positive spin.  Otherwise it&#8217;s like having to walk ten blocks instead of using a vehicle and implying that it is so much torture to do so as if you were walking across a never ending desert.  I suppose the key mentality to break that suffering financially mentality is to always appreciate what you currently have instead of worrying about what you don&#8217;t have.<\/p>\n<p><!--adsense--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems that recently almost everyday I am hearing something on the news about that Paris Hilton ordeal where she has to go to jail over a traffic violation. It is kind of amazing to see how so many people are emotionally attached to this event as if she did something to them personally. 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